The Dark Night of the Soul: Your Inner Reset
The Dark Night of the Soul is an old term (thank you, 16th-century mystic St. John of the Cross) for what feels like a spiritual rock bottom. It’s that season when life strips away everything familiar—your identity, beliefs, or sense of purpose—and suddenly, nothing feels stable. Scary? Absolutely. But it’s also a powerful invitation into transformation.
What It Really Means
This isn’t just “going through a hard time.” It’s your inner world clearing out what no longer serves you—outdated patterns, attachments, ego layers. Think of it as a messy decluttering of the soul before a rebirth. It can feel like walking through a void, disconnected from yourself and the world.
Often it’s triggered by loss, big life changes, or simply your spirit whispering: it’s time to grow. And no, it’s not punishment. It’s initiation.
Signs You’re in It
- Emotional chaos: sadness, confusion, or despair that doesn’t quite make sense.
- Loss of meaning: what used to excite you feels empty or dull.
- Spiritual doubt: questioning everything you thought you believed.
- Tower moments: relationships, jobs, or identities collapse so something truer can emerge (like the Tower card in tarot).
How to Move Through
- Embrace, don’t rush. This is a process, not a quick fix.
- Get support. Therapists, trusted friends, or mentors help hold the weight.
- Practice patience. Healing unfolds in its own time.
- Do the inner work. Journal, meditate, ask yourself the tough questions.
- Trust the rebirth. The breakdown clears space for a stronger, more authentic you.
The Takeaway
The Dark Night of the Soul is brutal—but it’s also a portal. On the other side is wisdom, authenticity, and deeper alignment with who you really are. You’re not broken, and you’re not alone. This is your transformation in progress.
A Gentle Reframe
Think of the Dark Night as a spiritual reframe on suffering—an invitation to see struggle not just as pain, but as transformation in progress. That said, take this framing only if it resonates with you. If it doesn’t, leave it. Your journey is valid no matter what language you use to make sense of it.
🌙✨ Through the dark, toward the light,
LC
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