Consistency Is the Love Language No One Talks About Consistency isn’t flashy.It doesn’t come with grand gestures or dramatic declarations.But it is the single most important ingredient in trust. And this applies to all relationships we invest in. Romantic partnerships, friendships, family dynamics, even professional connections that ask for emotional labor. Because trust isn’t builtContinue reading “Consistent Vibes”
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Cat Vibes
Avoidant attachment, nervous system chaos, but make it iconic I recently introduced Breakfast at Tiffany’s to a friend, which feels oddly intimate, like saying, here, this explains a lot about me without actually explaining anything. I adore this movie. It’s one of my comfort watch, emotional support films. What gets me every time is the way Holly GolightlyContinue reading “Cat Vibes”
Let Them Vibes
What “Let Them” Really Means “Let Them.”The catchphrase of 2025, courtesy of Mel Robbins—and honestly, a concept that feels both wildly simple and deeply uncomfortable. Here’s what Let Them means to me. Let them walk away.Let them take space.Let them heal in silence if that’s what they need.Let them rest.Let them do whatever they want—or feel theyContinue reading “Let Them Vibes”
‘Tis the Season Vibes
The Love Language of Things (And the Meaning We Try to Make of Them) I stood in the mail room overwhelmed. My eyes scanned every shelf—overflowing, some packages even spilling onto the ground. ’Tis the season, I suppose. Per the notification on the Luxer app, I should be seeing three packages that belong to me.Continue reading “‘Tis the Season Vibes”
Meaningful Vibes
Romanticize Your Life (No, Really.) Romanticize your life. Take the pictures. Write the blog. Archive it all on socials if it sparks joy. Not because you’re trying to prove anything — but because it’s your life, and it’s worth documenting. There’s something sacred about treating your own existence like it’s meaningful… because it is. WeContinue reading “Meaningful Vibes”
Missed Connection Vibes
A Nostalgic Throwback I used to read the “Missed Connections” section on Craigslist for fun back in the day. It was iconic — this little corner of the internet where strangers wrote hope-soaked notes to the person they crossed paths with at a grocery store, a gas station, a bookstore. Romantic, delusional, deeply human. A digital timeContinue reading “Missed Connection Vibes”
Muse Vibes
The Muse in the Middle of the Heartbreak I’ve always believed that love — and sometimes the loss of it — is one of the greatest creative forces we’ll ever meet. There’s something about heartbreak that cracks us open just enough for the light to pour in… and somehow, art rushes out with it. HumansContinue reading “Muse Vibes”
40ish Vibes
Sometimes I forget that music isn’t technically therapy… and then a night like this comes along and reminds me that actually, it kind of is. For my 40th birthday, I found myself front row at a Tame Impala show, basically having an out-of-body experience while Kevin Parker poured his psychedelic soul out onstage. Anyone whoContinue reading “40ish Vibes”
Roll Tide Vibes
Sweet Home Alabama: What If the Real Love Story Was With Ourselves? I decided to rewatch a classic the other day — Sweet Home Alabama. Let’s talk about it! On the surface, it’s a cute, feel-good rom-com with Reese Witherspoon caught between two men: her Southern, rough-around-the-edges childhood sweetheart Jake, and her posh, New York CityContinue reading “Roll Tide Vibes”
Goldilocks Vibes
Too Much, Never Enough Have you ever been told you’re too much? Or felt like no matter what you gave, it was never enough? If so, you’re not alone. Many of us live in that impossible tension—always trying to land in the sweet spot of “just right” for someone else. Maybe you’ve loved someone whoContinue reading “Goldilocks Vibes”