Content Note:This post discusses addiction, trauma, and mental health. Please read with care and pause as needed. In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Why This Conversation Still Matters This weekend, I have the privilege of hearing Dr. Gabor Maté speak at a conference, and I genuinely feel excited in the way that only therapists and deep feelersContinue reading “Hungry Ghost Vibes”
Tag Archives: Trauma
Safe to Love Vibes
Love, Safety, and How We’re Wired As a therapist, I often talk with clients about relationships—romantic, familial, and platonic. One truth I return to again and again is this: people don’t always love us in the ways we want them to, but in the ways they know how. Love is filtered through the nervous system,Continue reading “Safe to Love Vibes”
Avoidant Vibes
Stop Running From Love — You’re Worthy of It When you put up walls and keep your feelings bottled up, those emotions don’t disappear — they come back, usually louder and messier than before. And when you push people away, even the ones who genuinely care, eventually they’ll walk. Not because they didn’t love you,Continue reading “Avoidant Vibes”